MY THREE STUDENTS

A funny thing happened in June 2007, just as my wife and I were about to celebrate our 10th anniversary. Even though I had never taught art in my life, and was fully self-employed as a writer and designer (in addition to painting the sunrise and sunset every day, of course), within two days of each other two sets of parents asked me if I would teach art to their kids – three children in all. The two families did not know each other. Laura and I have never wanted children, but the strangest aspect was that all of the prospective students were 10 years old (including a pair of fraternal twins).

I said yes, even though I knew that teaching is one of the most difficult of jobs, and particularly for me, as I had already proven when I taught writing at UVa’s Darden Graduate School of Business Administration. I managed to do well at Darden, but almost everything for that course required my very deliberate effort.

Maybe teaching art to 10-year-olds would be easier.

Ha!

I don’t think it would have mattered much whether or not the kids were very bright or talented, but teaching three very bright and talented children was a challenge.

Truly, I’m not much of a teacher in the sense of being an instructor who conveys information or teaches a set of skills in a systematic way. I am better as a mentor and facilitator, a role I’ve assumed many times with writing and design clients. Luckily for me, to some extent with these kids all I had to do was wind them up and watch them go. 

I’ll describe them individually as artists on their respective pages, but one thing they have in common – and I think this is a compliment to their parents – is a matter-of-fact confidence in their own instincts and ideas that never failed to impress me. They might sometimes insist that they absolutely could not possibly do this or that specific technical thing or handle a certain subject, but that’s beside the point. When it came time to express themselves, they expressed themselves. Which is how I got to know them, I think, really well.

They are three of the most wonderful people I’ve met in my life, and I’ve set up these pages as my tribute to them. 

Lakshmi, Mohan, Willa, thank you.

Friday
Jul102009

Lakshmi Danis (Age 11) – “Scrap of Paper”

Lakshmi Danis. Scrap of Paper. Acrylic on watercolor paper, approx. 3.5 x 5.

I’ve titled this for Lakshmi; it was a cut-off piece of watercolor paper that she decided to paint.

Many people, whether children or adults, can start an abstract piece that looks about as nice as this. Few people, whether children or adults, know where to stop. Lakshmi has a discriminating eye for that sort of thing.

This is true: I had to ask Lakshmi recently, did you do this, or did I?